As children start growing up, the concern of parents also increases about them. Especially in adolescence, children go through so many changes that it becomes difficult for parents to assess their behaviour. In such a situation, parents do not understand how to raise children, how to understand them and how to explain them? Actually, this is because adolescence is such an age in which children are on the verge of childhood and youth. The interesting thing is that at this age, children themselves are not able to understand what they want and what they do not want? In such a situation, parents have to come forward and encourage them. There are some things which, if kept in mind, can not only make the problems of children easier but can also guide them.
Show interest in children’s work
As soon as they enter adolescence, children often start getting attracted towards many types of things. Their own choice changes. Whether it is clothes or food. Surprisingly, they start getting attracted to whatever they see. They start taking interest in different things. In such a situation, you have to understand them. Instead of interrupting them, you have to behave friendly with them, so that they can share their thoughts. You have to show interest in their choice so that they can also feel your presence. However, during this time, give them some space too.
Do not give up old habits suddenly
With increasing age, the habits of children start changing suddenly. The things that they used to do with enthusiasm earlier, when they grow up, they start shying away from doing them. For example, going out together or going to the market or bringing some goods. In such a situation, when they suddenly refuse, there is a rift between children and parents. Because parents are not used to not listening and children are not used to listening. Due to which a gap starts forming between parents and teenage children. Therefore, it is better not to give up these habits at once and support them.
Remove the hesitation from the minds of children
It is often seen that the conversation between parents and children decreases during adolescence. Actually, one reason for this is that children do not tolerate the interference of their parents in their work. Due to which they shy away from talking to their parents. In such a situation, parents should talk to them openly in the same way as they used to do in childhood. This will remove the hesitation from the minds of children and they will share even their smallest things with you. And the important thing is to take out some time in the middle of the day and spend some time with them.
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Avoid making unnecessary comments
Unnecessary comments made by parents regarding the growing age of children are often the biggest reason for estrangement between them and children. Often they are seen saying that “He is growing as tall as a camel. He is short. Or I don’t know whose colour he has inherited. He has not inherited it from our family. He is a failure in studies too. There was no one like him in the family.” Children are already worried about why so many changes are taking place in their body, and on top of that, such comments from parents break their morale. That is why parents should comment after thinking carefully. Even if there is some flaw, then it should be ignored and the child’s morale should be boosted rather than taunting him.
Stay fit yourself and keep your children fit
Many changes take place in the body of children during adolescence. At such a time, children eat and drink on their own. That is why special attention should be paid to their fitness. When you exercise or do yoga with your child, he will also start exercising by seeing you. This will also help you spend quality time with your children.
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